San Antonio Same-Sex Divorce Lawyer

Last updated on August 10, 2026

Same-sex couples in the San Antonio area face unique challenges in a divorce. Many clients who are in a same-sex relationship worry that the legal system will not treat them fairly. It is crucial to have an attorney who thoroughly understands the details of Texas law regarding same-sex divorce and other gay and lesbian family issues.

At Ruiz & Associates, PLLC, our experienced legal George Ruiz and his support team is prepared to stand up and provide you with strong legal advocacy. We will work to protect your rights in your divorce proceedings or other legal matters.

Helping LGBTQ+ Texans With Family Law Issues

Our attorneys are skilled in many areas of family law. We can assist LGBTQ couples with several other family law matters, including:

Understanding LGBTQ+ Divorce In Texas

Per federal law, Texas now recognizes same-sex marriage and, consequently, same-sex divorce. This means that same-sex couples receive the same rights as heterosexual couples when it comes to property division, spousal support and alimony. However, it is still in your best interests to work with an attorney who can help uphold your civil rights.

If you and your partner had a common law marriage, you may have difficulty establishing this to the state. A lawyer can help you demonstrate your common law relationship and receive the property division settlement and spousal maintenance that you need.

How Child Custody Is Handled In A Texas Same-Sex Divorce

Texas law distinguishes between biological parents and legal parents. A biological parent has a genetic connection to the child. A legal parent establishes parental rights through giving birth, adoption, court adjudication or an effective acknowledgment or presumption of parentage under the Texas Family Code. This distinction matters significantly in same-sex divorces where only one partner may be the biological parent.

If you and your spouse raised a child together but only one of you completed a formal adoption, the nonadoptive parent may face serious challenges securing custody or visitation rights. Second-parent adoptions establish legal parental rights for both partners. Without this legal protection, the nonbiological, nonadoptive parent may struggle to maintain a relationship with the child after divorce. We help non-biological parents navigate these situations and fight for their parental rights in Bexar County family courts.

Dividing Assets And Retroactive Common Law Marriage In Texas

Texas allows couples to establish an informal or common law marriage retroactively to a date before same-sex marriage became legal in 2015. This matters for property division. If you can prove your common law marriage started in 2005 instead of 2015, your community property estate includes everything you acquired during those additional 10 years.

To prove a common law marriage in Texas, you must show three things:

You and your spouse agreed to be married
You lived together in Texas as a married couple
You represented yourselves to others as married

Proving these elements requires documentation like joint bank accounts, shared leases, tax returns and testimony from friends and family. Establishing a retroactive common law marriage can significantly increase the assets you receive in your divorce settlement. We help San Antonio couples gather the evidence needed to prove their common law marriage and protect their financial interests.

Do Texas Courts Treat LGBTQ+ Divorces Differently?

This question comes up frequently with our clients, and the answer requires some nuance. The Texas Family Code applies equally to all married couples regardless of sexual orientation or gender identity. Courts must follow the same legal standards for property division, spousal support and child custody in same-sex divorces.

However, practical differences exist. Same-sex couples often face unique challenges around parental rights, especially when one partner never completed a formal adoption. Property division can become complicated when couples lived together for years before marriage equality became law. While the law treats all divorces equally on paper, same-sex couples benefit from working with attorneys who understand these specific challenges.

Call Now For A Free Consultation With A Texas Same-Sex Divorce Attorney

To discuss your divorce or another legal issue with an LGBT-friendly attorney, call San Antonio-based Ruiz & Associates, PLLC, at 210-899-4853. You can also reach us by contacting us online. Se habla Español.